¶ … Language of Silence Maxine Hong-Kingston describes the difficulties of growing up a Chinese-American girl with her powerful essay entitled, "The Language of Silence." The author begins the essay with an anecdote about her mother cutting her frenulum, her tongue, so that she might be able to speak better. Ironically, this act had the opposite effect: the young girl used silence to cope with her fears and anxieties about straddling two cultures. Hong-Kingston's essay is filled with stories like this one, in which the young Chinese-American girl struggles with her identity as being both Chinese and a girl. The central metaphor for the essay is silence, silence that can be both power and pain. The notion of finding her voice becomes the central symbol of the essay, because Hong-Kingston realizes that her voice equals self-expression. In order to navigate between her two cultural roles, Hong-Kingston builds up a barrier between her and the world, presumably to protect herself. The paradox the author describes in "The Language of Silence" is...

Although her mother supposedly snipped her frenulum to ease the girl's communication, the act only further her sense of isolation. Hong-Kingston felt connected neither to her Chinese heritage nor to her adopted American heritage because none of the other Chinese girls had their tongues cut, not even her sisters. Thus, this is one act that was supposed to facilitate her movement between cultures only served to separate Hong-Kingston from both her Chinese and American identities.
Hong-Kingston's cultural identity was further blurred when she entered kindergarten. She immediately "became silent in school." Her silence proved to be an effective barrier…